valentine.

All day people have been saying "ladies if you're single that means you're not doing something right." I highly disagree and I don't think it's fair.

Why must we all be generalized for a few silly girls? What about all the good girls who end up with the bad guys? What if they started off one way and end up another? I know females aren't the only ones who have dealt with it. Men who are single today and aren't celebrating obviously aren't doing something right either.

Yes, I have dated assholes by choice. Why? Self esteem issues. But now knowing what I'm worth and what I deserve, I have no one. Is that my fault? I want something serious with someone I know I can grow with, not just anyone. Now I can't find anyone. Is that my fault?

Sigh, I wish I lived alone. I'd have slow songs on repeat until my tear ducts were empty and heart was content.

Oh, Happy Valentines Day.